Is this date number 3 or 2

Yesterday was a OK day for a Monday, had trouble getting out of bed so I went in a little late.
Call and talk with Doug that morning, he told me how his day went with his mother, which was great as always. Then we made plans to talk later that evening.
Had my nails done and called Doug we got together for a drink and great conversation. We talk about things we wanted to see for the holidays. The National Christmas Tree, the Capitol Christmas Tree and Union Station decorations. He said he would help me put up a Christmas tree, so I guess that will be this weekend. Great. I really enjoy being with him. We hit it off from day one. So is this our 2rd date or 3rd, or does our first meeting count. Shit I just notice that he called me this morning and I missed it. Well I am sure he will call back. He called me and we talk while we were both on our way home last night that was night. He said something that sticks with me " I will never betray your trust", that was so nice to hear.

Jules